Well, if I'm being honest, both. I'd be lying if I said I didn't enjoy getting birthday or holiday presents, but I also love giving presents because making other people happy, makes me happy. So it's kind of a two way street. When someone takes the time to think about me and think "What should I get Jess for her birthday?", it makes me feel special and important and like some people actually like me enough to think of me, so yes I love getting presents. But if I ever had to choose between giving and getting, I would always choose to give.